Tips on the Rush Process:
1) Enjoy Rush
The decision to join a fraternity is a lifetime commitment. Millions of men
have gone through rush and have benefited from the advantages of
fraternity life. Although this sounds like a stressful time, it isn't. Make
sure to have fun with rush. You will meet a lot of great guys from many
different fraternities who want to do the same thing as you do--meet new
people!!
2) Set Your Own Goals
Decide for yourself what you want out of a fraternity. Why are you
rushing? Do you want a chance to be a leader? Do you want to establish
a network of connections to be used once you graduate? Maybe you just
want to meet new friends, or perhaps you want to join a fraternity just to
enhance your college years? The best way to find a fraternity to suit your
needs is to find out what you want from the fraternity.
3) Explore Your Options
Once you have set your goals, you need to explore your options. Make
sure to visit as many houses as you can. By looking at all of the different
chapters, you can get a better idea of what you want. Think of it as
buying a car. First, you'd test drive at least four or five different cars
before you started to...
4) Narrow Down Your Options
After carefully comparing your favorite cars, you'd finally make an
educated decision as to which one you really want. The same goes for
rushing a house. Once you have visited as many houses as you can,
eliminate the ones you don't want, and go back and carefully inspect the
ones you do want.
5) Spend Time Getting to Know the Brothers
Once you have decided which houses you want, spend as much time
with them as you can. Try to meet a majority (if not all) of the brothers in
a house, and go to as many of their events as you can. This gives the
brothers of the chapter ample time to get to know you, and also shows
them that you are truly serious about wanting to be a part of their
brotherhood.
6) Learn from Rush
If you decide not to join a fraternity, then at least get as much out of rush
as possible. Ask questions about Professors you have, or classes you
want to take. Have fun during rush. And last but not least, meet new
friends that you wouldn't normally get a chance to meet. |